I am not a blog guy and am definately not a diary guy. God knows how many times i have started and stopped after just a few entries. Well this is just another try.
This was not meant as a blog to begin with. Just an online diary for me. But i dont mind this being read by anyone especially because i feel the world is too big and has too many people for someone who i know to read this and trace this back to me. If someone does then thats when i start believing in destiny :)
If sm1 does read this by chance, i would like to give some pretext to me. I am indian and a guy who believes in common sense rather than anything else. The phase i am in is the 'maintain a stable income' one. My previous one was 'Buy a house' bit. May be sometime i will get a chance to all the diff phases i had gone thru and what i will probably go through in the future as well. Well as of now the next phase is 'Find a bride and get married' thing.
Its interesting isn't it !!
Sunday, June 27, 2010
Monday, June 21, 2010
Sleepless in Swindon
Well, i really havent told much abt myself yet, in short i am not a person who gets surprised or loses his cool that easily. I am no hero but ppl know me for my level headedness. Well the topic of discussion is 'Marriage'.
You see i have always had this thing in my head about this event, this happening, this phase or whatever u may call it. I thought that just like any other 'thing' this should be dead easy. i.e. Parents find a girl - you talk to girl - girl talks to u - if 'Y' from both - dumm dumm dumm - if no back to step 1.
See, its a very simple algorithm !! Well atleast i thought it was :(
Day 1 - The ADs
My father kind of decided that it would be a gud idea to give an AD in a newspaper. Never for once did i think this is gonna be a huge step. 11 calls + 1 email !! Thats what we got on the first sunday the AD was published. I was kewl as usual when chatting with my parents, joking around and not worrying much about the things. But god was i wrong. I think i got so good at acting as if nothing was wrong that i was fooling myself !! Well all that changed. I am still not sure when i freaked out and got so worried but i wasn't able to sleep!! Being the stuburn git i am, I did not even realise what was happening until today. Well so much for mr. Cool
I ended up sleeping at 4:30 in the morning. Over here the sun's up pretty early these seasons and i had a 2 hour nap before coming over to office. Things are not as good as i would expect them to be but they are not worse as well. Its high time that i get ready to express what i want.. the way i want.
PS : To be honest i am feeling much better now ;)
You see i have always had this thing in my head about this event, this happening, this phase or whatever u may call it. I thought that just like any other 'thing' this should be dead easy. i.e. Parents find a girl - you talk to girl - girl talks to u - if 'Y' from both - dumm dumm dumm - if no back to step 1.
See, its a very simple algorithm !! Well atleast i thought it was :(
Day 1 - The ADs
My father kind of decided that it would be a gud idea to give an AD in a newspaper. Never for once did i think this is gonna be a huge step. 11 calls + 1 email !! Thats what we got on the first sunday the AD was published. I was kewl as usual when chatting with my parents, joking around and not worrying much about the things. But god was i wrong. I think i got so good at acting as if nothing was wrong that i was fooling myself !! Well all that changed. I am still not sure when i freaked out and got so worried but i wasn't able to sleep!! Being the stuburn git i am, I did not even realise what was happening until today. Well so much for mr. Cool
I ended up sleeping at 4:30 in the morning. Over here the sun's up pretty early these seasons and i had a 2 hour nap before coming over to office. Things are not as good as i would expect them to be but they are not worse as well. Its high time that i get ready to express what i want.. the way i want.
PS : To be honest i am feeling much better now ;)
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